Hi Jill -
No specific place for you, sorry.
My assumption is that MOST places would love to do this, and work with you, especially if you choose a slower night of the week. Even if you do choose a typically busier night, most places would be behooved to work with you in pre-planning so as not to tax the kitchen all at once - they can have things prepped for you - easy peasy.
I'd start with your favorite place - a quick call during the day at an off time. Ask to speak with a manager about planning a dinner party and take it from there. I'd be very surprised if they are not very welcoming to your request.
( I LUUUUURVE to do these types of dinners at "hole in the wall" types of joints. Most of them will bend over backwards for you - especially on a slow night.)
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