Suzy Creamcheese wrote:
eatchicago wrote:
Regarding your husband's recipe, I have a number of issues with it, but if you like it I don't want to rip it apart

I'm not married to it. What do you think?
I'm making a few assumptions about what type of sauce you're going for here.
Mainly, I think his technique is backwards. He's simmering down tomatoes and then adding ingredients instead of building a flavor base and adding tomatoes to it.
#1: This really depends on the flavor you're going for, but I believe more often than not, you'll want to start out with at least some onion sweated slowly in olive oil. If you're going to cook a long time, you may also appreciate some celery and carrot. A small bit of carrot, finely minced (and good tomatoes, like Amata points out) will obviate the need for any sugar or honey.
#2: A good rule of thumb for any cooking is that spices should go into the fat before the liquid is added. You'll want to add your dried spices to the sweated vegetables. Most every spice is significantly more fat soluble than water soluble. You'll develop a better basis of flavor if you add things like your cumin first, before the tomatoes. If you have fresh herbs you want to use, like basil or oregano, add these right at the very end of the cooking process.
#3: I am firmly against "a lot of garlic" in a tomato sauce. In, fact the only time I'd use a lot of garlic is if I wanted a garlic sauce. One of the things that wows you in restaurant sauces is the balance of flavors. A lot of garlic is the enemy of balance. If you like garlic, use a modest amount, less than you think you need, and add it to the sweated vegetables (before the tomatoes go in, in step #1).
#4: Vinegar should not be necessary, especially balsamic. The only time I've added acid to a tomato sauce is when I was unhappy with the tomatoes.
#5: You don't need to stir too much.
Overall, I think he's simply adding too much stuff (sugars, vinegar, spices). One of the things I've come to learn about Italian cookery is that "restraint" is a key ingredient. Use a few good quality ingredients in good balance with some basic technique and don't do too much to them and you'll come up with good results.
Most importantly, you'll learn a ton about sauces if you try some classic, time-tested recipes a few times.
Best
Michael