I just got back from a dive trip to Thailand (som tum, FTW!) where my South African divemaster (underwater guide) did his best to convince me that a braai is the single best thing in the world. I was thinking that this would be a great way to celebrate my 50th birthday with my meat eating friends, but I can't seem to find anyone who will do this. There were a couple of local braais led by Jeremy Brewington in the early '10s, but nothing recent and his website is defunct.
some background for those not familiar with the braai
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https://www.nytimes.com/2016/05/25/dining/braai.html-
https://www.saveur.com/south-africa-grilling-braai