exvaxman wrote:
We moved and put my father into a local assisted living home. His demand of what he wanted for dinner reflected who my mother was (bff to Julia, guest of honor at her first taping, my mother also catered many embassy dinners in the 60's, etc. )
In the multiple times he was at a local hospital, he loved the selections, and i was very appreciative of the fact that I was not cooking. He still complained about the quality, but the selections were great. For reference, during major holidays the staff ate my cooking in his room rather than the generic the place served.
This happened when we put my MIL in assisted living. MIL family was used to a nice spread on Christmas Eve so we asked for the common "party" room for that night and put out a huge spread that was normal for us, crock pots of stuff, trays, good home cooked food, not just nibbles. We fed the whole place, staff and all for Christmas Eve plus a large amount of leftovers. Sad commentary on the state of assisted living food.... but they sure loved holidays and when my MIL had her birthday, plenty of good eats provided by the inlaw family.