GAF wrote:Wow. I am one of those who intended to attend, but was waiting to decide what to bring. I never imagined that the picnic would be cancelled. Even 30+ friends would be nice.
However, this does raise the issue of the future of LTH. And I say this with deep respect for Ronnie and his hard work (and for his friendship). This is NOT a slap at Ronnie or at anyone. But as we approach 20 years, we are not the organization that we used to be. Aside from the Evanston and North Suburban lunch group and the Small Household Exchange and the Dessert Exchange, we hardly ever meet as we once did. Will the GNRs ever happen again, the Thons, the meet-ups, the 24-hour Thon? What, if anything, is being planned for our 20th Anniversary? I realize that the way that we once used message boards has evolved, but LTH in the early years was a crucial part of my life and is less so today. I hope that, like the picnic, it is not time to call it quits. Perhaps Ronnie should arrange a gathering in which all of us who love this community can discuss how to revitalize it.
I very much appreciate the thoughts, Gary. I agree (or at least think that I'm agreeing with you) that the situation with this year's picnic is more of a symptom than a cause. Our community has lost steam over the past few years (more on this below) and the dwindling lack of interest in the picnic reflects it.
As Cathy would be the first to tell you, the picnic does not organize itself. Among the handful of folks who volunteered to help pull this year's edition together, there was virtually no sentiment when we emailed each other last week that the level of interest warranted the effort required (or the sacrificing of the day). I'm not trying to be secretive about this but I also don't want to speak for anyone else. If any of those people would like to share their thoughts, I hope they will.
What's next for LTH? As my message-forum-mentor and eGullet co-founder, the late Steven Shaw, once said to me, "suggesting
is volunteering." So, this will be up to all of us, not just me. But, we do what we know. To that end, I'm happy to continue to take care of the administrative side of things, pay the bills, etc. Of course, I'd like to have some input and involvement in our future but these are not solely my decisions to make. Not only do I not want to make unilateral decisions on the community's behalf, I don't have the expertise or bandwidth to do so.
If others have visions for the future or ideas they'd like to see implemented, I really hope they'll step forward, start discussions, etc. But ultimately, where the rubber meets the road, making suggestions for others to implement is of limited value. Great ideas are, well . . . great but without people to actually do the work, they're only worth so much. While others might disagree, it seems LTH needs more than idea people, we need doers. We need folks to step up and put in the time. And if they do, they'll have my support, financially and beyond.
And I'm not saying they should do this for me (as owner of the site). I'm saying they should do it for themselves if the current state of community is not to their liking, and they think something should be done about it. You have my pledge that I'm willing to bankroll it and that I have no plans to ever monetize the site. Beyond that, other than my dedicated assistance as things come up, that's about all I can offer because I can't promise to do what I don't know.
As for the diminished community to which I alluded earlier, there are probably a variety of reasons for it and I'll take as much blame as anyone wants to give me. When LTH's existence was in jeopardy over a decade ago, three of us (myself, David Dickson and the late, great Steve Zaransky) got together and laid down some cash to make sure the site -- and our collective history together -- didn't disappear. To some degree, that was achieved but between the three of us -- and the ownership group that followed -- there wasn't the level of technical expertise needed to keep the site properly updated. Now it's just me and sadly, I know very little about how to run the back end of this site. This is problematic and has undoubtedly contributed to our weakening as a community.
On the tech side, I have some paid, outside help for urgent matters but generally speaking, it's hard to come by. My repeated efforts to hire someone to move us forward have not come to fruition. As far as I know, none of us Moderators possesses the knowledge either. phpBB is a quirky and fading platform. Even some 'experts' with whom I've consulted, have been baffled by some of the issues we're facing. But I cannot express strongly enough how open I am to finding us some skilled technical help -- and I'm also willing to pay for it. So, if anyone can assist in this effort, please let us know.
But in the end, I'm not suggesting that our woes are only technical in nature. I think they run deeper and broader than that but I'm unsure how to fully identify or address them. Certainly the rise of of social media, which didn't exist when LTH was founded, has contributed, as has covid, which seems to have had a permanent effect on the way we all dine out. And there's obviously more, too. However, by addressing the technical side, perhaps we can at least control what we can theoretically control . . . and maybe that would help illuminate the rest.
As for the future; the
N-Thons, holiday parties and picnics, etc., that's for all of us to decide. I'm no more or less a stakeholder in this than any of us. I did what I could for this year's picnic (and what has been enough in the past) but the fact that we're having this discussion now makes it pretty clear that it wasn't enough this time. I have some ideas but I'm not sure how effective they'd be. That said, I'm guessing there are some LTHers out there who have sound ideas about how to best proceed on this front.
I think the ship has sailed on this year's picnic but nothing has been planned yet for a holiday party this year. That could certainly happen. What do you all think? Would anyone like to take the lead on that? If so, let's discuss it.
Okay, I've rambled on long enough. If anyone has any questions or would like any additional information, please just let me know (here or by pm). I sincerely hope we can convert the concern shown here into some forward momentum for the LTH community.
Thanks, and have a lovely Labor Day weekend.
=R=
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